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[Fatherchef]

So since the children mother left March, stopped all contact for four months after applying to the court system.  Waiting on the section 7 report. I just don’t understand after all this time she won’t even ambicle and co parent. (Shorter story) haha

How do you deal with somebody like this?

[warwickshire1]

Calmly wait for the family court process to be completed.  Unfortunately for now best to not engage in any conversation until one day she is able to put childrens needs 1st and co parent . hopefully you are seeing children at moment

[steve3334]

hi,

have been in similar situation, toxic person that can not be reasoned with. you can only rely on the court to sort this out. if she’s not contacting you direct, you could try get a third party involved, like her family member if your on good terms? hopefully the section 7 report has good recommendations.

[Fatherchef]

Only time will tell. Hopefully with her being inconsistent with her story and reasons. I see them basically on her terms. Been long process as safeguarding check never came back from August. They ask to stay longer she says no.

[steve3334]

yep. mine would not let kids stay overnight, and I was only allowed to have them on saturdays. until i went to court.

[Fatherchef]

Well first it was Sunday 10-5 then Wednedsy 3-6 was added. Me and the children ask for more time which mother refused until safeguard checks back. (She brought up false accusation) . Then last hearing 2 days before Christmas without safeguarding checks coming back she let me them have overnight. Come to question why she stopped contact cause safeguarding check then offer overnight

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