A little about my situation ive got my ex pregnant, and now she has become distant, she is bipolar and not taking her medication and didn’t alow me to go to the first scan which really hurt. Ive always said i want to be amicable but it appears she doesn’t and just says shes doing the best for the baby but this cant be the case if it doesn’t involve me. I feel im gonna have to fight for everything now, and i dont expect shell let me know when its born either which is really gonna hurt. I was just wondering how soon id be able to see my baby? Ive had a discussion with meditation but it seems i need to go to court to get a court order if she still refuses me access? Is there any way of seeing my baby before any court action cause obviously this will take time and will loose bonding time.