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    Jollie
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    Not sure where to even begin. I am soon to give birth to my lovely baby. I have no family support, no friends around, no one. I am absolutely alone. The father of the baby pressured me to abortion. I refused. He left + created smear campaigns of how I dare to keep the baby when he doesn’t want it. He never showed up for me nor our baby (no doctor appointments, no any support). I would love to have a friend or make new real friends. I have no one around me. I live in a small village where people live their own lives. Everyone knows everyone and yet acts as if no one exists. I have no one to ask for help, to lean on, to ask for guidance or in case if emergency. I am really worried and scared.

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    Andrew uk
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    Hi. I’m sorry you are struggling. Message me if you want.

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    Andrew uk
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    Small villages can be difficult.

    You sound like you will be a lovely mum.

    I’m not sure what I can do practically but I’m here if you want to talk.

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    Mariatu84
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    You will be great, I was in the same boat my beautiful daughter is now 18 months. There will be ups and downs but when you hold that baby in your arms everything is possible, good luck am sure you will be great. X

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    Vintagedresser
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    You hun sound lovely, and I know you will be just fine. I don’t know but I get that matilda vibe, the woman not the little girl. The way you said beautiful baby made me go ahhhhhhhhhhh. Don’t worry alone or not alone you will be happy. It’s him missing out not you. Walk with your head held high and be proud that you are totally Gilmore girling it. I’m really happy for you ☺.  I’m here too if you want a chat, I’ll put out the digestives and a fresh pot anytime 😊.  You are not alone really. ❤

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    Jollie
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    Even a talk would help.

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    Jollie
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    If I don’t fall apart before then. I am really doing my best to hold myself together.

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    Jollie
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    You are so sweet. It is a girl I am expecting. She is lovely. I love her v v much.

    Any talk will help me. Any kindered soul will help.

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    Andrew uk
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    The offer is there if you want.

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    Andrew uk
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    Congratulations. You will be amazing. Message me if you want.

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    Jollie
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    You know the strangest thing is so many people turned on me after I chose to keep my baby. And now whenever I ask any of them for help, they say “it is baby’s father who should help you not me” even though they know he left us.

    I had to distant myself from so many people just to keep myself sane.

    Right now sitting by the sea doing my best to keep my head in one order. It is overwhelming especially when evening falls and you struggle to sleep.

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    Andrew uk
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    How lovely that you are by the sea. I was last week for a bit and it does make you feel better. Yes sometimes you need to put space between yourself and others.

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    Jollie
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    What is your story, Andrew? 🙂

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    Andrew uk
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    I have to say you’re lucky to have such a lovely view.

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    Jollie
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    I am always alone, so plenty of space – too much.

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