Hi,
First post from me and not one I thought I’d ever have to make. My wife is about to separate from our relationship after 6 years of marriage (15 years being together in total). Basically we’ve been through a very traumatic termination of a 4th pregnancy together recently and its heavily damaged our relationship to the point she feels she needs to leave to get space for herself to heal.
I’m very supportive of this and we are working very amicably at the moment both in honour of our relationship and children. I’m not sure whether we will move to divorce and have agreed to give it time.
I’m worried at the moment about the next days and weeks and whether people can share their experiences and advice on how to emotionally cope with the split. Looking for practical advice, not on how to get back together, but the simple things like what types of activities you do with your kids (ages 7, 5, 2) in the immediate term when they come to visit.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone.