Hi all, I’m in a devastating state right now. I split from husband due to just being unhappy over two years ago. We have a little girl who is 4. We have a split custody agreement (informal) which has worked fine. Lately (past 6 months) my little girl has been coming back from her dad’s and every now and then says she wants to be with daddy.
She’s just spent an entire week away from me (longest she’s been gone) and as soon as she came back she burst into tears saying she wants to be with daddy. It got so bad he eventually came and picked her up….. He told me she broke down during lunch saying she didn’t want to come back but she’s giving neither of us any answers.
She has just started school and I am in the process of moving in with my boyfriend… But this was done slowly and always asked her if she was OK to stay over at New partner place every time. She hugs my new partner and says to him she loves him. My ex has said he hears from her that she really like him too.
I’m at a loss as to what to do…. I fear losing my baby. I’m worried he’ll go for custody and she’ll never want to see me….. I have no ideas or plans on how to fix this.