my childs father and I are not in a relationship, however, we get on.
our baby girl is 3 years old.
yesterday he booked a holiday and once booked he said he wants to take our daughter for 3 weeks.
I have never been aware from my girl for that amount of time and asked him if we could compromise instead of 3 weeks how about 1 week and a half or 2.
This has led to a heated discussion and both of us angry.
please do let me know if I am being unreasonable, because I am currently feeling very guilty because he is a great dad, but I haven’t been on holiday with our girl, nor has he, and 3 weeks is a long time especially as she is only 3.
Thank you for the replies.
I was typing the situation whilst I was very heated and re-read what I wrote.
Just to clarify, he has booked the holiday for himself already, he has not booked the holiday for our daughter, however, this is what led to a heated discussion due to the fact I did state 3 weeks is too long.
I believed based on the conversation we had that I was being unreasonable, however, I am pleased to know that you both are thinking the same as me.
I don’t want to deny him of his rights as our daughters daddy as he’s brilliant as stated but an adult conversation and compromising is better than the argument we had.
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