15 months away

Hi Christina,

What your going through is perfectly normal, thankfully the anxiety will soon pass as it’s mainly a hangover from your previous relationship. The trust thing is a different issue and one that I totally understand as do many of us here, all I can say is the right person at the right time will show you that not all men are the same just as I am sure not all women are the same.

Mark

Nobody walks in your shoes apart from you so they haven’t the right to judge you, their opinion doesn’t matter so don’t let anyone bring you down. If you know in your heart that you’ve done no wrong then keep in mind this very simple yet coarse phrase ‘f##k em!’ It’s worked wonders for me lol

Hi I have a friendly piece of advice. If at all possible make as few friends as possible at the school gates. Because I swear some parents still act like they should still be in school. I still have a friend I met there and she is lovely. Thank goodness I don’t have to do the school run. I got picked on because I was one few single working parents by a so called friend. I didn’t even want a job. My job makes me ill. But now I have a few good friends I can talk to about anything. I’ve binned the rest.  😀

Yes as hard as it is I wouldn’t bad-mouth your ex off to ANYONE. Thanks to the beauty of social media 😩 anyone can find anyone these days and no doubt you’ll get that someone who just loves to stir the pot.

Have you heard the conversations these women at the gates have? Not slagging of SAHMs its mostly tattle-tale and gossip which I find really boring.

Try and time it so your not hanging round there too much. Also tell your kids to make sure they are not last in the queue ready to be picked up. Half the parents don’t look and its so annoying when you’ve waved at yours 😂