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Kerrie525
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Hi im not much help but im in similar situation. My husband and I have been together 16 years and have 5 sons. He had an affair 3 years ago lasting 9 months which I forgave.. I took him back and we became pregnant with our 6th son.. Isaac died when I was 26 weeks pregnant. On the day of his funeral my husband left early and it turns out he had started another affair. He left.. I was devastated losing my baby and my marriage. Again I tried to forgive and he moved back in around February. When lockdown came he kept needing to go for drives for hours on end and yes… He had started another affair. I asked him to leave… I struggle massively with my mental health. My kids don’t want to see him and he earns a lot of money and doesn’t provide for them.  I am lost to say the least.. It hurts like hell.. He tells me he has been a fool but I am scared if I believe him that he will hurt me again… Sorry I am not much help but I do understand how hard it is