Reply To: I don’t know what to do
Im a year on now and i am in a nice routine now at home, we have a court order that works well ordinerily. My ex is a night mare though still. Mainly over access and money. I had to go through csa but at least it was sorted quickly. He applies to court regularly to change things and is turned down. All i will say is set up a routine that works for you and your child, do something for your self after bed time every night and make plans for when your kids are with their father to occupy your mind. It is fine to wish they were with you and miss them too much it hurts but as long as its safe it is best for them. You will have good and Bad days but forgive yourself and eaxh day is a new day.