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Hi everyone

sorry I’ve not been on here for a while, concentrating on me and making me strong again.

today marks my 4 month ‘anniversary’ of the day I found out.

life has changed dramatically but I have to tell myself it’s for the best.  Him and her are still together, he sees our son regularly, taking him for bike rides that sort of thing.

I have sent the divorce papers off online and we are in discussions about the house.

apart from that I am just taking each day at a time, home schooling our son, looking after our dog and working from home.

i am definitely in a much better place than I was a couple of months again and I know things will just keep,improving.  Our son has accepted that we have completely split up and knows that Dad is with the women that he cheated on me with.  He is upset and angry with his dad for doing this to us but like I said he still wants to see him and I don’t want to stop that.

if anyone wants to contact me for advice or is in a similar situation please go ahead, it’s good to talk 🙂