You are not stupid ! We would like people to be like us, decent and honest! At this stage and from someone who I chatted to online (thankfully didn’t meet) I would not even think about wasting your time and energy .
Mine was love bombing. good job I’m ok in my head . I just let the charade play on because this one was a fruit bar !! eventually I blocked him as I said on the phone I’m chatting to someone in Nigeria and you will be asking for money next . Anyway it cancelled 3 ,dates . What a relief i tell you !!