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Hi twins plus1

I’m in the same position as you but I’m having one baby and shes a girl! I dont have any advice except what my solicitor told me and that is that you are not expected to be parted from your babies until they are at least 6 months old and even then it would be for a max of 3 to 4 hours. Also I was told as long as I offer him 3 days a week for 3 to 4 hours that is considered reasonable.

I personally dont think I want my ex at the birth we havent spoken or seen each other in 4 months and I’m 28 weeks pregnant we have each other blocked on the phones I had to block him because hed unblock me to send the most vile nasty messages and then block me again and it was playing havoc with my mental health.

Hope that helps and congrats on your twins x