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I’m so sorry Annie for what has happened you it’s awful. I dont have much advice but I just wanted to reply so that you’d know you weren’t alone. I was so madly in love with my ex that I ignored every warning sign every red flag I looked ar him with rose tinted glasses. He wanted this baby I was unsure and now hes nowhere to be seen and it’s likely I’ll be left holding the baby!

At the end of the day we can only do what’s best for us in the situation we find ourselves in. We cannot change the other person and I know right now it feels like hell but it does get better I promise. My ex walked out on me in Jan and I’ve come a long way since then. Be kind to yourself and keep reminding yourself that it’s ok to have grieve and be sad and devastated and every other emotion but just remember soon your going to be holding a beautiful baby in your arms xx