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SmileySam
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Thanks for your replies, I think I’ve become too self sufficient, coming from a break up where I didn’t really have a voice. I’ve tried dating sites and they just don’t interest me anymore, like you mention most do seem to be for hook ups – and yes that’s fine if it works for some, but doesn’t do anything for me :/

I may well have scared  few off with my socialising skills haha. I seek no validation from anyone and I think that scares some men!! I generally love going out (well nowhere at present). I’m always trying to find something new to do.

My theory is I’m not going to go looking for anyone and the Mr Right will come along one day, but think I may have pushed a tad too hard on that thought. It’s made me so busy that now my mindset has become wary that if I were to meet anyone, I wouldn’t have any time for them!!