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MummyJu I wasnt in the same circumstances as yourself, my ex was not on steroids, but I know what its like to have the dream of the perfect family ripped apart.  Thats a hurt that takes a long time to get over. Sometimes I dont think we can ever truly know someone no matter how much we think we do. Some people are very good at keeping a part of themselves hidden and although we may see little glimpses of it, it can still come as a huge shock when they reveal their true selves. But at the end of the day the kids should be the priority in all of this which Im sure is the case for you but if he isn’t willing to do that then thats something he’s going to have to answer for when they get older and start seeing things for themselves and asking questions. But you can and should take measures to stand up for yourself and your kids and what you are entitled to. He has to pay for his biological child whether he sees the kid or not. And seeking advice from a solicitor may help you figure out what your rights are and give you the confidence to take the next step. All the best