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Jalder
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I’m in the same boat, split with my girlfriend of 13 years just before the lock down. We had just moved into our first home (mortgage) and she decided she no longer is in love with me. We had been together since we were 16 and only ever been with each other. We’re both 29 now and having to move on. As it was her decision I’m the one that is mentally struggling with it all. We have 2 children aged 2 & 8 so not only is our relationship over but our family & home is now broken. I’m in my parents and even though I’m exercising, walking I see the kids every day I still can’t get passed the anxiety of losing everything. My mind is in constant thought and I really struggle to switch off. I’m half scared of the lock down finishing as I feel like she will be out there ready to move on while I’m moping in my old bedroom at my parents. Life just doesn’t feel fair at the moment.