Reply To: My ex is a bully
Non molestation orders only exist because behaviour like this is unacceptable and you deserve a life without being harassed, but right now there are no consequences if he harrases you so why should he stop?
Take the solicitors advice, Do not tell him you intend to get a NMO hoping it will stop him because he already knows his behaviour is distressing you, he’s carried on, You’ve warned him that if he doesn’t stop harassing you there will be a consequence, he carries on. You’ve given him every chance to behave reasonably and he has chosen not to.
He’s left you no choice, it’s not something you want to do but you can’t live like this. No one can.
Look at womens aid and rights of women websites for more support.