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Kath
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Yep he is calling all the shots, it’s time to rein it in by the sounds of it.

Could you send him a polite email telling him that the next time he wants to see the children it will not be in your own home and that he can either take them out somewhere or take them for tea at his place? Yes he is likley to kick up a fuss but this is your home, the place where you should feel safe and comfortable so stand your ground in a polite but strong way and mean what you say. You really don’t need to put up with this xx