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Kath
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Hey Rob

I’m so sorry jj has been so rude to you, it’s unforgivable the way she has attacked you for no reason at all. Do your best to take no notice of her, she’s a bit of a know it all and she is the reason I don’t come on here much any more. There is no excuse for her behaviour towards you, we’re not all like that I hope you know.

Now on to the school dinner for your 11 year old. Did I read her school runs on parentpay? My son’s school does too. If you can get the ex to give you the log in details use it to put in a monthly amount that will cover her meals and break time snacks. then reduce the amount you pay CM by the same amount, could that be done? If it can’t be done contact the school and discuss it all with them. They will be able to have a look  on the system to see what money is going into her account, see what food she is eating at school. Your ex might just be talking a load of old BS just to pee you off or get more money from you but if she isn’t school will not want your child going without food during the day and they will want this sorted out for your child’s benefit and as dad you do have a right to ask these Q’s.