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Kath
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You do have a lot on at the moment don’t you. But it won’t always be like this, things will get better I promise.

Being pregnant is a fantastic experience for most women, it should be a fantastic experience for you too. Yes the delivery can put you thru your paces but it’s soon forgotten about for some incredible reason 🙂 It isn’t something to be terrified of, more something to be amazed at as you little one grows.

As for dad, sorry but it doesn’t sound to me like he is going to be there for you, he doesn’t sound grown up enough to support you so get your friends behind you, get people who love you behind you and you can do this. Maybe your relationship with your mum could improve one she knows her daughter is going to be a mummy, you might be suprised how much she may want to look after you.

Your going to be ok, there are always people on here you can get help from just when you need that support. Be very good to yourself, look after yourself because you are the most important person to your little one and prob always will be xx