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mstime
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Hiya,

Im so sorry to hear of your situation. It must be very tough for you all.  I lived with my ex for 2 years while we sorted the house etc so i have an idea of how difficult it can be. What got us both through was talking and knowing that there is light at the end of the tunnel as long as we didnt enter some kind of personal war. Unfortunately it seems your partner has already fired the first shots by suggesting you have mental health problems.  I dont know but is there anyway you guys could sit down and discuss the options open to you both? Maybe you already have? Does he have somewhere to live if he left the family home? He may be thinking that the sofa is better than the alternatives right now? I sometimes look back and wonder how we got through it all . Im sure one day you will do the same. Just dont fall for personal attacks. Im sure those that know you also know the truth.