Reply To: Difficult behaviours after seeing dad
There are times in my life when I haven’t wanted hugs and affection when I have stuff to deal with, maybe that’s the same with your daughter? But when I have needed a hug I have asked for one. I do understand that there is a big age diff between your daughter and me but people of all ages deal with things in their own way.
I don’t know how it is with your ex but would there be any chance of talking with him to see if there is anyway it can be made easier for the children?
The other thing is while you are carrying the children thru this, you will need someone to help carry you thru your own emotional state because it will be emotionally draining for you. If you don’t have a face to face person then come on here often and get any support you need xx