Reply To: Being taken to court. Everything is a mess.
My daughter is 13 months, her dad left when she was 2 months and he’s never had her on his own. I’ve also moved towns to where the rest of my family live and he drives 2.5 hours here every other weekend. He sees her with me there, you have gone above and beyond. Personally I don’t think the ‘standard’ shared parenting and overnight visits etc come into play with a baby, a baby needs their mom, especially when it means you’re so far apart. I can’t imagine I’d be happy my ex having her for a weekend, and 2.5hours away from me until she’s at least 10.
babies need stability and familiarity, I really cannot imagine any court ordering you to continue such an arrangement. Hope you’re okay x