Reply To: I need help
Definitely get solid legal advice, as previous replies have stated.
But also massively look after yourself here and your mental health. Prioritising you and your needs is so important to help you face the future. Have you got supportive family nearby or friends who can pop over to keep your spirits up. Try to get some time to yourself to help you clear your head, make a plan and focus on what YOU want from life and how to reach goals that are going to make YOU happy. Be selfish here, because it will help you be a better parent for your children and it will help you understand how to create a “new normal” as you move on.
Send hugs – feel free to send a message if you need a chat.