Thankyou Stacey, at the moment I’m swinging between hurt and anger. I don’t know what to do first and I must keep my children’s interests a priority. This man has spent a lot of time bringing me to the state I’m in and although I’m usually fairly strong right now I’m lost. I need real advice on mortgages/renting, benefits if any, child maintenance and what to do about my suspicions of his stashing money 😟