I was led.to believe I was granted a living. Order which means I do not need my exs permission to do anything with our son. My obligation is to advise dates our son would not be available no later than 7 days beforehand. The ex is pretty much disputing this and wants me to change my holiday to suit the order.
I did alter the times of the first visit but do believe this will be the pattern from now with requests to change dates and times. Whilst I’m happy to be flexible the ex asked for this order and a point needs to be made where I will have to be an arse and stick to it