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Lulublue
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That is so sad! I can’t understand how anyone can say that to someone. You must be in a world of turmoil? Is this your first child?
I’d love for him to wake up and see the light, but at the same time there has been so many problems and running away from her, it scares me to death that if he does he might just destroy her with his selfishness.  He will only make the effort for a month tops then slowly start running away then gone with in 2 months. And let’s be honest if he wanted to see her, he’d have made the effort of a phone call and an hour long mediation meeting.
I know I’m my heart him not seeing her is a good thing for her development, but it still hurts he’s so self-absorbed. She currently may not have her dad in her life, but she has stability and so much love around her which makes for a solid foundation, with him around she certainly wouldn’t have stability x