Reply To: Should I update my kids dad
Thank you for all your replies, really helpful.
I find it really hard to understand how people chose to have a family and then decide to ‘opt-out’. That’s my situation, my ex just found it all too much / chaotic / not what he wanted anymore….. results in emotional decision making.
I agree with you all – it’s partly why I posted! I want to say: you’re too lazy so sod you, make the effort to find out about your kids, I’m not going to do all the hard work for you, you lazy #%?&. But I also want my ex to say: your mum told me what a great job you did in you project. It would mean the world to my daughter (my son is 2.5 so too young to appreciate yet).
I’m going to try sending a text to inform my ex when things happen with the kids and see what happens. I’ll update you all in a few weeks and let you know how it goes.