Reply To: Equal Parental Accountability
My ex is the same. All decisions are left to me though I shouldn’t be surprised as that’s what usually happened when he lived with us.
Our child is moving up to a new school next September and he hasn’t asked me if he can come to any of the school open days.
He’s refused to take her to any potential after school activities that fall on his time with her. He doesn’t want to hang around or have his time with her affected which I get. He will though happily take her to gigs when he’s playing in bands. He’ll be focused on playing his instrument where our daughter will be sitting next to him or in the venue unsupervised. There have been several activities she’s gone to over the last year and he’s refused to take her and collect her or he’s swapped his weekends so I have to do the ferrying around or have my weekends and plans affected. Again, I shouldn’t be surprised as I usually did the ferrying about when he lived with us.