Reply To: Separated with 3yr old and mortgage
I was with my ex since 14 till 33. I snapped.
Iv had no support during of after separating. Not a penny and only just having kids regually every two weeks and me getting rid of negativity by going no contact.
But I would have been over the moon with 50/50 custody and share on school clothes, trips, put too for big presents if wanted at birthdays and Christmas instead of two lots.
If invited to party’s whoever had child at time to accept decline invite and buy present.
School/teacher contact using own email adresses to be in the loop.
I’d understand we both had to pay for our houses and buy kids clothes for each of our houses 1. To get wear out of them and 2. No packing bags ☺ Perfect.