It’s hard when children are involved especially those with extra difficulties. My son doesnt know the house were going to, I have tried to involve him as much as possible but he doesnt want to leave his home and doesnt understand why 😕 I really do feel for him although he is holding up well minus a few meltdowns. We move next week, luckily he has a good supportive school who can put lots of things in place for him there too. Think they are stronger than we realise. I hope your son continues to stay strong. As for us we just muddle through. I find the autism world very lonely.