Reply To: A question about mortgage and maintenance
It’s sounding like you need to have something written up with regards the mortgage. You do not have to do it thru a solicitor, you can write it up yourselves. Keep evidence of any agreement you make and any suggestions about mortgage payments that would come across as fair to the man in the street even if he does not agree,keep records. Keep it as formal as possible, communications via email and post (if you post to him keep a copy of the letter you posted) If at the end of the day he still wants everything his own way and won’t work with you on this to keep a roof over the heads of your children, the only other way forward would be to take it before a judge and let the court decide. Again you would not need a solicitor for going to court, you could do it yourself.