Reply To: Twins 8 days old. Having trouble.
Congrats on your babies :). Welcome to parenthood. you can do it. it tough seeing your babies and not being able to hold them. my son was in hospital at 7months with Meningitis and I couldn’t hold him or touch him as he was in too much pain, its heartbreaking but please know that they are in the best place and it sounds like they are little fighters and you WILL get that cuddle and it will be the most amazing cuddle in the world.
As for the rest, ignore them. your true friends and family love you just the way you are and if they do think that then they are so not worth it.
so sending you the biggest hug and you have got this.
always here if you want to chat/vent etc.