Hi, I’ve never been in your situation, so I’m afraid I cant offer much advice. It does however seem as though he is breaching his court orders. If he is still harassing you, it is a matter for the police. Keep a log of every time he contacts you or trespasses on your property. If your family aren’t being supportive, reach out to those friends you lost touch with. Chances are they will be happy to hear from you. It really does help to share your problems. I really hope you and your new partner can get past this and have a happy future together.