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Butts174
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Can your mum help at all for a couple of weeks just to see if this makes a difference?  Also perhaps try a couple of nights together?  I tend to speak to my children on the way back from their dads to identify any issues they have had at the weekend to see if I can help communication issues between them-my sons both have learning difficulties, and I don’t think their father realises until I speak to him how intimidating and loud he is, and sometimes he needs the obvious pointing out to him-eg my son this last weekend says his dads house is too dark and he is too scared to go to the toilet at night-I made my ex aware who felt awful that our son couldn’t speak to him but now lights will be on at night 😊 does your son say it’s anything in particular?