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Kathymumofone
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Hi Craig.

Are you ok? Your wife certainly chooses her moments doesn’t she. Being made redundant is horrible and trying to deal with that and a relationship falling apart must be awful.

ignore demands for anything to be done by Monday, that’s ridiculous. Don’t be pressurised. Focus on your interview first, then once that is over, arrange a half hour with a family solicitor which should be free, or call the Gingerbread advice service. Put a list of questions together beforehand – house, mortgage, money, pension, child custody so you get as much information as possible. Tell your wife you’ve arranged an appointment to get some legal advice. If she sees you starting the process, she might stop pushing.

But most of all, you need some moral support. Talk to your daughters about what life could be like in the future. To your friends and family. Let them help.

It feels awful at the moment, I know, but it will get resolved.🍺